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These Pages

All of these historical pages are available to all who wish to read them. 

Many of these pages refer to my own Quest.  It was this site, these pages and Efficient Love - The Good-Man Methodology that helped me find my own, perfect for me, Heroine.  My Quest has been totally, successfully accomplished - and Janet and I are sharing a glorious path of our own Happily Here & Now on our way to our shared version of Happily Ever After.

Although my Quest was wonderfully successful and is now over, I have left many of these pages that refer to my own search unchanged so that readers can better understand how I used The Method.  Hence, many pages purposely have not been updated to show my success!

My most sincere hope is that this old site will help give you insights on how best to EFFICIENTLY  find your own Hero or Heroine!

EfficientLove.com     

To find out more, also check out www.EfficientLove.com for updates.

Paths & Trails

Autumn leaves are absolutely best savored in the Great Smoky Mountains National Park -- especially when either climbing quiet, placid mountain trails beside gurgling streams to reach gushing waterfalls or majestic peaks -- or driving back park lanes at slow speeds with the top down on the convertible...but what would make both so absolutely perfect -- would be if you are fortunate enough to have THE most special, highly energetic, amazingly adventurous and totally adorable companion beside you the entire time! Click for more about these pictures.  Efficient Love and Relationships - For Better Dating, Online Dating and Relationships

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Autumn leaves are absolutely best savored in the Great Smoky Mountains National Park -- especially when either climbing quiet, placid mountain trails beside gurgling streams to reach gushing waterfalls or majestic peaks -- or driving back park lanes at slow speeds with the top down on the convertible...but what would make both so absolutely perfect -- would be if you are fortunate enough to have THE most special, highly energetic, amazingly adventurous and totally adorable companion beside you the entire time! Click for more about these pictures.  Efficient Love and Relationships - For Better Dating, Online Dating and Relationships.

The Main Paths

Below are the three main paths through my Domain. 

You can always look here on all the pages to change to another main path at any time.

Your Quest

Click on the path below to find ways for you to better define the Hero or Heroine you seek.

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Writings

Click on the path below if you would like to read my fiction and non-fiction. 

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My Quest

Click on the path below if you want to learn all about me and see my own wish lists for the Heroine I seek for me.

Caution:  this is a long and hard trail intended only for those few brave souls who might, just maybe, be my Heroine.

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What's New

Very Major Update:

VERY HAPPILY MARRIED
Details by clicking Heroine Found.

New Page:  Dear Dashing are periodic answers to emails I receive about how to better apply The Good-Man Methodology to the reader's own relationship issues. 

New Page:  Relationship Foreplay which will give you 5 dates of info on a prospective lover in only 5 minutes!

New page just added to share some of the the spectacular, mesmerizing, kaleidoscopic sunsets that slowly parade out at sea each evening off my balcony.  Click the picture to see some of the whispering quiet reminders of the power of God.

 Click for sunsets galore

New pages just added for those who want Instant Chemistry first and for those who think I have too much Time on My Hands!

New page:  Strictly for friends and family on my recent relocation  to a new paradise.  Email me for the map to this hidden trail.

The view from my balcony that we might share on part of our first date...Click for BIG picture!  Efficient Love and Relationships - For Better Dating, Online Dating and Relationships    

Also, a new page,  Soulmate Math on how each picky trait you want impacts your number of possible Heroes or Heroines.

Also, several new Dragon pages have just been added.  The first 8 of them have been so popular, I've added ten more Sneaky Relationship Dragons to the list.

General Updates Continue

This Domain is undergoing it first major renovation in four years.  Some main trails and side paths are undergoing brand new construction while others are simple cosmetic repairs.  Those paths undergoing major new construction may still be temporarily closed.

This Domain started, once upon a time, as a single page and a single picture with my own Quest as its sole goal.  The site has grown haphazardly to over 350 separate web pages and some readers are getting lost in the bushes. 

These new pages will have much better navigation with much better organization of thought and purpose - with it primary goal of helping others find their own Hero or Heroine.

Please stay tuned and. as always, comments and suggestion are welcome.  Also, please let me know of broken links, typos, inconsistent formatting or anything that seems confusing.


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Sorry for the constraint, but I get almost 2,000 spams every day - and this is the only way to easily solve the problem!


 

Are You TOO Young to be MY Heroine?

Each year the staff at Beloit College in Wisconsin puts together a list to try to give the faculty a sense of the mindset of that year's incoming freshmen.  If you don't remember the time before most of these, then you are TOO young for me.

Here is this year's list:

Most students entering college this fall were born in 1984.

A Southerner has always been President of the United States.

Richard Burton, Ricky Nelson and Truman Capote have always been dead.

South Africa's official policy of apartheid has not existed during their lifetime.

Cars have always had eye-level rear stop lights, CD players, and air bags.

We have always been able to choose our long distance carriers.

Weather reports have always been available 24-hours a day on television.

The "evil empire" has moved from Moscow to a setting in some distant galaxy.

"Big Brother" is merely a television show.

Cyberspace has always existed.

Bruce Springsteen's new hit, Born in the USA, could have been played to celebrate their birth.

Barbie has always had a job.

Telephone bills have always been totally incomprehensible.

Prom dresses have always come in basic black.

A "Hair Band" is some sort of fashion accessory.

George Foreman has always been a barbecue grill salesman

Afghanistan has always been a front page story.

There has always been an heir to the heir to the British throne.

They have no recollection of Connie Chung or Geraldo Rivera as serious journalists.

Peter Jennings, Dan Rather, and Tom Brokaw have always anchored the evening news.

China has always been a market-based reforming regime.

The United States has always been trying to put nuclear waste in Nevada.

The U.S. and the Soviets have always been partners in space.

Mrs. Fields' cookies and Swatch watches have always been favorites.

Nicholas Cage, Daryll Hannah, Eddie Murphy, and John Malkovich made their first major film impressions the year they were born.

The GM Saturn has always been on the road.

The "Fab Four" are not a male rock group, but four women enjoying "Sex and the City."

Fox has always been a television network choice.

Males do not carry a handkerchief in a back pocket.

This generation has never wanted to "be a Pepper too."

Ozzy's lifestyle has nothing to do with the Nelson family.

Women have always had tattoos.

Vanessa Williams and Madonna are aging singers.

Perrier has always come in flavors.

Cherry Coke has always come in cans.

A "hotline" is a consumer service rather than a phone used to avoid accidental nuclear war.

The drug "ecstasy" has always been around.

Genetic testing and DNA screening have always been available.

Electronic filing of federal income taxes has always been an option.

Magnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) has always been available to doctors.

Trivial Pursuit may have been played by their parents the night before they were born.

The U.S. has always maintained that it has a "clear right to use force against terrorism."

The drinking age has always been 21 throughout the country.

Women have always been members of the Jaycees.

The center of chic has shifted from Studio 54 to Liza's living room, live!

Julian Lennon had his only hit the year they were born.

Sylvan Learning Centers have always been an after-school option.

Hip-hop and rap have always been popular musical forms.

They grew up in minivans.

Scientists have always recognized the impact of acid rain.

The Coen Brothers have always been making films.

 

And in 1984, when they were born, perhaps it was "Too Soon to Tell"...
 

Technology analysts questioned the need for briefcase-sized computers.

The National Children and Youth Fitness Study announced that children were overweight and underactive.

A CPA organization heralded that computerized audit systems were being used to avoid errors and they were doing much better at spotting mistakes and providing internal audit controls.

Film critics declared that George Lucas was looking for new directions because Star Wars interest was waning.

Videotape technology was said to be killing the film industry and slowing cable network development.

Analysts stated there was no market for Direct Broadcast Satellite systems.

The U.S. Supreme Court declared sleeping to be a form of free speech.



OK. OK....You don't have to remember ALL of these. But please remember most of them without faking it!

 Hmmmm.....actually, if you remember ALL of these, like I do, you may be too old for me!

 

The Book

If you're enjoying your visit here to my Domain, you can help support, sponsor and maintain all of these many paths and trails with your purchase of the JUST released THIRD edition of Efficient Love.

The just-released 184 page paperback edition is now available at Amazon, Barnes and Noble and most bookstores for only $19.97! 

Get your own Efficient Love today!

 

If it's not in stock at your local bookstore,  just have them special order it for you. Tell them it's ISBN # 978-0-9792952-0-1

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Facebook

We've JUST set up a new group on Facebook focused on helping readers more efficiently benefit from the concepts of Efficient Love. 

There, you can post your own Profound List for free and let those who match your list, find you - Efficiently!

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"I am a frequent visitor of your web site. I have met a man, and we have been seeing each other for 20 months now, I have 2 daughters 16 and 19 he has 1 daughter 13...I have more freedom than him, because of the ages of our children. I would like more quality time with him to develop a deeper relationship. We are committed to each other and"...Click for More


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Efficient Love?

The concept of Efficient Love is not the oxymora it first appears. 

Doesn't it  make incredible sense to invest a few hours to FULLY define ALL of your wants, wishes and needs that would describe your ideal lover?   

By efficiently identifying the general traits, characteristics, sexual issues and day-in day-out needs you find important, you can very quickly recognize if a prospective lover is a genuine long-term match BEFORE the chemistry takes over and leads you into yet another dead-end relationship and through another Cycle of the Nine Stages of Love.

Do you really want to watch the sun set on yet another day without sharing YOUR path of Happily Here & Now with someone who wants YOUR same Happily Ever After?

Doesn't it make more sense for you to find YOUR ideal Hero or Heroine as quickly and efficiently as possible? Wouldn't you rather share as many glorious days and nights of wonderful inefficiencies possible with your ideal lover, as quickly as possible?

Don't waste another sunset.

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Improve Your Dating, Love, Relationships for Happily Ever After Love

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Improve Your Dating, Love, Relationships for Happily Ever After Love

Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance are all important concepts to avoid loneliness,being lonely and divorce.
Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance 

What method do you use in your life for dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance? 

Do you seek Happily Ever After in a relationship?

 

Improve Your Dating, Love, Relationships for Happily Ever After Love

Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance are all important concepts to avoid loneliness, being lonely and divorce.
Dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance 

What method do you use in your life for dating, love, relationships, marriage, romance? 

Do you seek Happily Ever After in a relationship?