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These PagesAll of these historical pages are available to all who wish to read them. Many of these pages refer to my own Quest. It was this site, these pages and Efficient Love - The Good-Man Methodology that helped me find my own, perfect for me, Heroine. My Quest has been totally, successfully accomplished - and Janet and I are sharing a glorious path of our own Happily Here & Now on our way to our shared version of Happily Ever After. Although my Quest was wonderfully successful and is now over, I have left many of these pages that refer to my own search unchanged so that readers can better understand how I used The Method. Hence, many pages purposely have not been updated to show my success! My most sincere hope is that this old site will help give you insights on how best to EFFICIENTLY find your own Hero or Heroine! EfficientLove.comTo find out more, also check out www.EfficientLove.com for updates. Paths & Trails
The Main Paths Below are the three main paths through my Domain. You can always look here on all the pages to change to another main path at any time. Your Quest Click on the path below to find ways for you to better define the Hero or Heroine you seek.
Writings Click on the path below if you would like to read my fiction and non-fiction.
My Quest Click on the path below if you want to learn all about me and see my own wish lists for the Heroine I seek for me. Caution: this is a long and hard trail intended only for those few brave souls who might, just maybe, be my Heroine.
What's New Very Major Update: VERY HAPPILY
MARRIED New Page: Dear Dashing are periodic answers to emails I receive about how to better apply The Good-Man Methodology to the reader's own relationship issues. New Page: Relationship Foreplay which will give you 5 dates of info on a prospective lover in only 5 minutes! New page just added to share some of the the spectacular, mesmerizing, kaleidoscopic sunsets that slowly parade out at sea each evening off my balcony. Click the picture to see some of the whispering quiet reminders of the power of God. New pages just added for those who want Instant Chemistry first and for those who think I have too much Time on My Hands! New page: Strictly for friends and family on my recent relocation to a new paradise. Email me for the map to this hidden trail.
Also, a new page, Soulmate Math on how each picky trait you want impacts your number of possible Heroes or Heroines. Also, several new Dragon pages have just been added. The first 8 of them have been so popular, I've added ten more Sneaky Relationship Dragons to the list. General Updates Continue This Domain is undergoing it first major renovation in four years. Some main trails and side paths are undergoing brand new construction while others are simple cosmetic repairs. Those paths undergoing major new construction may still be temporarily closed. This Domain started, once upon a time, as a single page and a single picture with my own Quest as its sole goal. The site has grown haphazardly to over 350 separate web pages and some readers are getting lost in the bushes. These new pages will have much better navigation with much better organization of thought and purpose - with it primary goal of helping others find their own Hero or Heroine. Please stay tuned and. as always, comments and suggestion are welcome. Also, please let me know of broken links, typos, inconsistent formatting or anything that seems confusing.
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Chemistry First???"I'm sorry but your Method makes no sense to me. I want chemistry first! Then, if that is there, I will take the time to do my lists." This is one of the most-often responses I get from prospective Heroines to these pages -- generally impulsively sent by those who haven't yet taken the time to read much here first. Mutual GREAT chemistry is fantastic and wonderful and, for me, an absolutely critical part of any Happily Ever After! I won't settle for a long-term relationship without it. Period. However.... Instant chemistry, and love at first sight, can also be two of the very worst things that can happen to you and me - things that can steal time and Happily Ever After from both of us. You already KNOW what chemistry is. And, most everyone who has felt it wants to make absolutely certain that they have the most chemistry possible… Ever After….. in any long-term relationship. BUT, I hope I can show you why you do NOT want it first! If we have instant chemistry and love at first sight, it is highly likely that none of the important things to both of us, besides the chemistry, will match well. Not having well-matched wish lists will make the entire relationship a veritable mine field that almost ensures an unhappy ending for one or both halves of us as a couple. My guess is that you, like me, have had this experience more than once. How many times have you had the knock-the-socks and thigh-highs-off instant chemistry -- only to find out AFTER you fell in love that there really wasn't a match on very key, non-negotiable issues? Remember how hard it was, after one of both hearts were involved, to break it off? Doesn't it make sense, on virtually every level, to invest a couple of hours to fully define all of those necessary traits YOU really want? Without your fully defined lists, how will you know if I, or anyone else, is the Hero that YOU seek? If you would like some help on defining your Hero, click on Your Quest. And, yes, I agree -- GREAT chemistry is very rare. However, it is just one of TEN filters that are part of the Process of finding someone where EVERYTHING matches. Hey, I didn't make up the Process -- we got those from God and Nature! I have just tried to figure out the Process and a way of more effectively and efficiently working within the Process to find my Heroine. As I see the Process, you and I both need to match on ALL of the following:
If these TEN filters don't ALL match, you and I will end up with yet another short-term relationship instead of ending up on a path to Happily Ever After together. No wonder I have such a hard time finding my Heroine. No wonder we all have a problem finding our own path to how we individually define our Happily Here & Now, let alone Ever After. If it sounds like I have given all of this some thought, you are right. Matter of fact, I even interviewed tens of thousands of folks about this and wrote a book on the subject. Click on The Good-Man Methodology if you would like to read more about it or download the free e-book. Back to you and me. Once I find someone where all of the filters match…both ways….I personally plan on going for every ounce of chemistry on every level possible!
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One note about emailing me: Please click on the eyes and don't change the automated subject line. If you do, my spam filter will probably delete your mail without me seeing it until I add you as a "Friend." Sorry for the constraint, but I get almost 2,000 spams every day - and this is the only way to easily solve the problem! Efficient Love? The concept of Efficient Love is not the oxymora it first appears. Doesn't it make incredible sense to invest a few hours to FULLY define ALL of your wants, wishes and needs that would describe your ideal lover? By efficiently identifying the general traits, characteristics, sexual issues and day-in day-out needs you find important, you can very quickly recognize if a prospective lover is a genuine long-term match BEFORE the chemistry takes over and leads you into yet another dead-end relationship and through another Cycle of the Nine Stages of Love. Do you really want to watch the sun set on yet another day without sharing YOUR path of Happily Here & Now with someone who wants YOUR same Happily Ever After? Doesn't it make more sense for you to find YOUR ideal Hero or Heroine as quickly and efficiently as possible? Wouldn't you rather share as many glorious days and nights of wonderful inefficiencies possible with your ideal lover, as quickly as possible? Don't waste another sunset.
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One note about emailing me: Please click on the eyes and don't change the automated subject line. If you do, my spam filter will probably delete your mail without me seeing it until I add you as a "Friend."
Sorry for the constraint, but I get almost 2,000 spams every day - and this is the only way to easily solve the problem!
Efficient Love?
The concept of Efficient Love is not the oxymora it first appears.
Doesn't it make incredible sense to invest a few hours to FULLY define ALL of your wants, wishes and needs that would describe your ideal lover?
By efficiently identifying the general traits, characteristics, sexual issues and day-in day-out needs you find important, you can very quickly recognize if a prospective lover is a genuine long-term match BEFORE the chemistry takes over and leads you into yet another dead-end relationship and through another Cycle of the Nine Stages of Love.
Do you really want to watch the sun set on yet another day without sharing YOUR path of Happily Here & Now with someone who wants YOUR same Happily Ever After?
Doesn't it make more sense for you to find YOUR ideal Hero or Heroine as quickly and efficiently as possible? Wouldn't you rather share as many glorious days and nights of wonderful inefficiencies possible with your ideal lover, as quickly as possible?
Don't waste another sunset.
These pages will show you how.
Want to know more? Click YES!
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